How To Buy A Sex Doll

Things to know before you purchase a sex doll


We understand that the world of lifelike sex dolls can seem very complicated. Which company do I choose? Which brand is the best? How do I protect myself against fraud? Will I actually receive a quality product? The list of questions can be endless, and that’s where we want to help. Allow us to break down the process so you can invest in your satisfaction with confidence.

Unfortunately, with the new rise of this industry there has been an abundance of false news littered over the web. Various manufacturers all try to compete for your business and sadly, lots resort to unethical sales tactics.

We’ve created a buying guide to help you shop with us specifically, followed by a list of general tips that apply when buying from any sex doll vendor online. You may not choose to do business with us and that is okay, we only want to ensure that you make the best decision wherever you shop!

RLLD Buying Guide:

To purchase your lifelike sex doll from Real Life Love Dolls, follow the steps below!

(Lots of retailers offer very similar products so feel free to adapt this guide when shopping elsewhere too.)

1. Read our General Buying Tips section below. 

To learn more about our company specifically, what we offer, and our policies, scroll down to the bottom of our website and find the footer sections labeled “Info” and “Important Links”. Here you will find the pages that will give you important insight and knowledge of what to expect when choosing RLLD! We recommend getting familiar with our policies,  terms, and definitely check out our FAQ page!

2. If you choose Real Life Love Dolls, it is time to find your perfect doll!

We recommend starting off by browsing all of our pre-set dolls. You can sort them by popularity, price, release date, or by size to get a good start.

We understand that our selection is large and you may have a difficult time deciding between dolls; use your instinct to narrow down the body and face features you like, and stick with your decision. You can always Contact Us as well and we’d be happy to help with your choice! 

Our most popular dolls are 165cm and are found in the 160cm-168cm category, a majority of our customers have found this to be the perfect size. If you are not finding a particular doll that stands out in your mind, try our Fantasy Doll Builder and design a custom sex doll from the ground up! Take into consideration which additional features you may want to add as well; standing feet, removable vagina, and extra wigs are the most common.

3. After picking your love doll and adding it to your cart, it is time to checkout!

Simply go to your cart and select the “Proceed to checkout” option, enter your information accurately (don’t forget your phone number please! Our shipping carriers need it) then select the “Proceed to Paypal” button after agreeing to our terms. If you do not have a Paypal account don’t worry, PayPal will securely process all credit cards. When redirected to PayPal’s checkout, look to the bottom and choose the button that says “Pay with a credit or Visa Debit card”. Once your payment goes through, congrats, we will now begin making your doll custom to order! 

4. Sit back & relax, your sex doll will be delivered shortly!

Now is probably the hardest part of the process—waiting for your new love doll to arrive! As read in our shipping policy you can expect to have your doll delivered in around 10 business days. We don’t mean to test your patience, but we do need time to ensure that the final product is of the highest quality! Remember that delays can happen too so don’t panic, you will receive your doll in a timely manner. If at any point you are overly concerned, don’t hesitate to Contact Us and we will happily help!

General Buying Tips:

The world of buying realistic sex dolls is one that is constantly expanding! There is an amazing variety out there and most options are easily available for purchase.

Unfortunately, there are so many vendors offering similar products but all at different prices. You also can’t miss the fact that almost every website claims that every other website is a scam. So, where should you start? Let us guide you!

1. Search Search Search, and Compare!

Devote some time to doing research on sex dolls, although it may sound tedious, it can save you hundreds or thousands in the end!

What we mean by this is to do a few internet searches on sex dolls and check out a handful of websites, not just one! Spend the time going over each company’s products, policies, and costs to see what your options are. Again, with so many choices, you should try to find the best overall value for your money without compromising quality.

Total cost being the largest point, but things like added extras and fast shipping are also important. Compare what company “A” offers opposed to company “B” until you find one you are confident putting your trust in!

2. Dig Deeper 

Now that you have a better idea of what is out there, get the answers to any further questions you may have!

Contact the companies you are interested in to see how helpful of a response you get, as well as how fast they reply. There is so much talk about how many sex doll scams are present online, but we believe this is very controversial.

We are not saying scams don’t exist, because they definitely do, we are simply saying that a majority of sex doll vendors want to scare you away from shopping elsewhere. Companies in this industry have an abundance of competition and try whatever they can to gain your business; even if that means stretching the truth about other vendors.

We don’t want to belittle our competitors, we stand by our own values and want to show sex doll enthusiasts how to decide for themselves if they are dealing with a legitimate company. We have posted on our blog a guide on How To Avoid Sex Doll Scams and highly recommend reading it!

3. Once you have gained a little more insight, its time to choose and checkout!

If you read our above mentioned blog post, you will know to look for reputable payment processors upon checkout.

If a website doesn’t offer a known way of payment such as Paypal, Stripe, Apple Pay, or a popular other, be weary! Also make sure the website you are on is encrypted, when seeing the web address on your browser, make sure it starts with “https” and not just “http” (“” for example). Without this level of security, any info typed into the given website will not be secure.

Enter your details only after determining its safe to do so, then sit tight because you’ll soon have your very own realistic sex doll!

Whether you choose to do business with us, or any other vendor, we wish you the best in finding your new love doll!